'm all over Facebook and my new addiction Twitter and I see a lot of people complaining about the same thing...their chosen mate isn't worth anything. I read all these statuses of females saying niggas ain't shit....let try to come to a solution...first you dating NIGGAS....so if you keep getting NIGGAS why would expect something different every time....that's called ignorance... or being retarded, think about it. I believe even a retarded person would realize that if they keep doing the same thing over and over something must be wrong.
They continue with "Oh I give u, I'm just gonna stay single becuase I can't find a good man.." The second part of the solution is look at yourself. In your mind you may think you're the best thing around, which is good, it shows confidence, but if you really take a good look at yourself and look what you can really off to a man. If you can only offer a good time and a some laughs then what you get in return is not what you want. Offering substance is the key. Men don't really ask for a lot from a woman in reality. Be intelligent, be funny and most of all have some COMMON SENSE. A man will show you a lot more respect if you have GOOD common sense. Yes ladies, there are a lot of you out there without common sense, intelligent, but 0 common sense.
Now before I'm giving the entire female a downgrade, men we got change somethings up too. We want a Megan Good, Lauren London before Lil Wayne brainwashed her, Scarlett Johansson, or a Jessica Alba even, but when we are just a Dougray Scott (exactly...who?), then we're not getting none of the aftforemention women. It does help if you look like you came out a GQ magazine and not the latest rap video all the time. Believe, it does make a difference, a huge one. Now a lot of males can dress nice if they want to but the thing that would do a lot of in from getting "that" girl.. is the way we speak. "Hey shawty", "What's up ma", or "Wuz yo name" just is not going to cut it. Learn to speak proper English. It's not being being "white" or being "stuck up", it's called being on the same level as the rest of the world.
Fellas, we lose the women we want because we don't know how to speak to them. And for the ones that know how to dress and speak but still run into dumb females, check your surroundings, it may the the females.
So in the end, the reason we have bad relationships is because we don't know what the hell we want and what we really need. Ladies, if you date "dogs" then you will get a "dog' no matter how good you are. Gents, if you look for bitches then you get bitches, it's that simple.
Thank you, that is all.
